Life has taught me few things.

• I came alone and I have to go alone.
• Some people are with you only when they need you,not otherwise.
• If you care for someone too much, you will be ultimately blamed. 
• A simple lie of your close one can break you more than anything.
• Its hard to weep alone when there is no shoulder for support.
• No matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
• It takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
• It's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
• We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
• There are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
• No matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.
• The people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
• Whatever you give, eventually comes back to you.
• Life can be changed in a matter of hours, by people who don't even know you.
• I still have a lot to learn.........

These Roads tell us something...........

                               These roads are a source of inspiration for us. It is the Roads that takes us from one place to another. They always remind us that life means movement, continued growth, success and success after a success. Goals get changed but journey continues.
                     In order to reach our goal we should know the correct direction of the road, because wrong direction lead us towards unknown destinations which will be of no use to us. It may only waste our time and we can be deprived of the new opportunities in life. 
                    Sometimes we find ourselves standing at the crossroads getting confused. That's the time when we should take correct decisions. Goals should be clear in our mind. Then only we could get success.
                   Often difficulties come in our life in the form of curves, barriers, bumps,Traffic lights,speed breakers etc, but they should be taken as a challenge. These hindrances could be tackled one by one. If you have determination and perseverance then any type of goal can be achieved.    
                  One thing should be kept in mind that even after the goal is achieved, the road never ends. It goes on and on, setting new horizons, new destinations for us to conquer.   

Take Everything Positively

                              A baby mosquito came back after its first flight.
                              Dad asked:- “how did you feel ?”
                              It replied:- “Dad it was wonderful. everyone was clapping for me”.
                             This should be our attitude towards life. We should take everything positively  in life. Everyone faces problems in his daily life. When problems are big and your strength is no longer enough to carry them. Just don't give up. 
                              Don't think about what you haven't got. Think about what you have  and how to use it. One of the important aspect of life is to always remain happy and look towards the bright side of your life. This gives you strength to keep on going on your road to success. Find reasons to smile more often and then you will see that life will smile at you.
                              Believe in yourself and your abilities. Each person in this world has something unique within himself. Discover it and use it and then you'll see that people will follow your footsteps and will also respect you.
                             Try to help others. This simple act of helping others will fill you with joy. Try to thank people for even the smallest thing they do. For example, try to thank a sweeper for his work. Tell him that he is doing such a great work, which other people would normally hate to do And see the result yourself.
                                Allow yourself to laugh and find humour in the simplest of things. The simplest things in life give us the most pleasure.                              

Friends & Friendship.

                         When we look back on our younger years, we remember the people who went to school with us, the people who made us laugh, the people who hung out with us when nobody else would, and the  people who made our lives much better simply by being a part of it.
                            There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship-you always feel loved and cared about.The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have.
                             A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever. 
                            Whether we realize it or not, everyone we know is very special to us.
                             Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their heart to us.
                             Most people walk in and out of your life. But only True friends leave footprints in your heart. 
                            Friendship is that unique relationship that knows no difference.                               

Helping Others......

                                   Some times ago,at the Seattle Olympics nine athletes, all mentally or physically challenged, were standing on the start line for the 100m race. The gun fired and the race began. Not everyone was running, but everyone wanted to participate and win. 
                       They ran in threes, a boy tripped and fell, did a few somersaults and started crying. 
                       The other eight heard him crying. They slowed down and looked behind them. 
                       They stopped and came back.... All of them.
                       A girl with Down's syndrome sat down next to him, hugged him and asked,"Feeling better now"?
                       Then, all nine walked shoulder to shoulder to the finish line.
                       The crowd stood up and applauded. And the  applaud lasted a very long time.....
                       People who witnessed this still talk about it.
                       Why ?
                       Because deep down inside us, we all know that the most important thing in life, is much more than winning for ourselves.
                       The most important thing in life is to help others  win. Even if that means slowing down and changing our own race.
                       A candle loses nothing if it is used to light another one.

Greed--An Endless Desire

                  It was a hot summer day. A lion was feeling very hungry. He came out of his den and searched here and there. He could find only a small hare. He caught the hare with some hesitation. "This hare cannot fill my tummy" thought the lion. 
                  As the lion was about to kill the hare, a deer ran that way. The lion became greedy. He thought, "Instead of eating this small hare, let me eat the big deer". He let the hare go and went behind the deer. But the deer had vanished into the forest. The lion now felt sorry for letting the hare off. 

                   

                  In one way or the other we all behave like this lion. We are not satisfied with what we have, but tend to run behind those things which are not within our reach. We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of some thing we don't have but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have. We should not become prisoners of our own greed. 
                  Because we cannot have everything we want, we need to focus on what's important in our lives. We should learn to cope with this endless desire.

                 

Most of us miss out

Most of us miss out life's big prizes like Nobel,Oscar,Grammy. 

But we are all eligible for Life's small prizes.

Like :---

---A hug from the best friend,

---A short sleep on friends shoulder,

---A glorious sunset,

---A chat with those people with whom we feel most comfortable,

---An ice-cream when it's deadly cold,

---A silent night on the terrace,

---A slow walk on an empty road,with the person you love,on a full moon night,

So don't worry about life's big prizes. 

Take care of the small ones.....

Value

A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a Rs100 note.  In the room of 200 people, he asked, "Who would like this Rs100 note?" 

Hands started going up.

He said, "I am going to give this Rs100 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the Rs100 note.

He then asked, "Who still wants it?"

Still the hands were up in the air.

Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.

He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. "Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.

"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth Rs100."  

                                  Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. You are special - Don't ever forget it!

In Search Of New Ideas

                            One of the most famous Brands says,"An Idea can change your life"

                           Our minds are like bank accounts which keeps depositing good ideas, positive thoughts and pleasant experiences. Our minds are thought-factories and can produce either positive or negative thoughts. Ideas are our raw materials to develop and grow.

                           All the famous business concerns today have a panel of experts whose main work is to generate new ideas and promote their products. They do this to survive in todays growing world of competition. We daily face new challenges in life and these challenges can be confronted by creating awareness among ourselves. 

                            We should be  always creative because creativity leads to the generation of new ideas. If new ideas are not created we would easily get bored. This will affect our progress and development. 

                           We often get bored in our daily life doing the same things again and again. Therefore we should think up new ideas to brighten our lives. This search of new ideas should be a never ending process, than only we can get success in life.

The Essence Of Trust.

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter:
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said:
"No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.
"If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...